May we be instruments of peace and grace in every opportunity to give advice, remembering that everything we do should glorify the Lord and build up those around us.
"Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry." James 1:19
True active listening begins with a willing heart. Often, we are so busy preparing our response that we do not fully pay attention to what the other person is saying. This verse invites us to be intentional in listening, setting aside our impulsive reactions and focusing on understanding the other.
When we prioritize listening over speaking, we show genuine love and a willingness to understand, just as Jesus did with those who sought His guidance. Listening without judgment, with a heart full of compassion, creates a safe space where others can open up with confidence.
"Do not judge, or you too will be judged." Matthew 7:1
When we approach someone in need of advice, we must remember that our role is not to judge, but to understand and accompany. This verse reminds us that we are all imperfect and that only God fully knows the hearts. Instead of pointing out mistakes, we should offer words that build up and restore.
Reflecting on our own humanity helps us approach with humility and empathy, recognizing that we have been recipients of divine grace and are called to extend that same grace to others.
"As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another." Proverbs 27:17
The advice we offer should aim to strengthen, not weaken. Just as iron sharpens iron, our words should be tools that build up those who seek our guidance. This means speaking the truth, but doing so with love, recognizing that our words have the power to build or destroy.
This proverb inspires us to be sincere friends, guiding with wisdom and helping others grow in faith and character. Giving advice with sincerity is not always easy, but it is an act of love that reflects our commitment to truth and the well-being of others.
"But to you who are listening I say: Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you." Luke 6:27
At times, those who seek our advice may not be close to us or may even have been a source of conflict. However, Jesus calls us to show love even to those who have harmed us. Offering advice from a place of selfless love reflects the nature of the gospel.
This call to love and do good, even when it is not reciprocated, challenges us to live according to the values of the Kingdom of God, showing a light that can transform hardened hearts.
Listening to those in need is an act of love that requires patience, humility, and a heart aligned with the values of Christ.
The biblical verses show us that advising is not simply speaking, but a process that involves empathy, wisdom, and above all, a willingness to reflect God's love in every interaction. When offering advice, let us remember that our words can be a powerful tool to guide others toward the purpose God has for their lives.